Remember that it is a disability. ADHD is disabling (at times) despite being a core part of people who have it.
You can’t fault yourself for not being a better runner when your leg is broken, even if your partner so dearly wants someone to run with. You can try. You can train. You can get assistive devices. But it might still hurt some days. It may never be a thing you can do to someone elses standards.
Y’all should consider couples counseling. It’s not a bad thing, or a defeat - but it sounds like theres a lot of pressure on you (which can be PLENTY counterproductive). Might be better to find ways to understand each other better and how to best support each other as partners.
HowToAdhd has a few videos about being in a relationship, too, that could be insightful for you or your partner.
https://m.youtube.com/@HowtoADHD/
Remember that it is a disability. ADHD is disabling (at times) despite being a core part of people who have it.
You can’t fault yourself for not being a better runner when your leg is broken, even if your partner so dearly wants someone to run with. You can try. You can train. You can get assistive devices. But it might still hurt some days. It may never be a thing you can do to someone elses standards.
Y’all should consider couples counseling. It’s not a bad thing, or a defeat - but it sounds like theres a lot of pressure on you (which can be PLENTY counterproductive). Might be better to find ways to understand each other better and how to best support each other as partners.
HowToAdhd has a few videos about being in a relationship, too, that could be insightful for you or your partner. https://m.youtube.com/@HowtoADHD/